( Since many NE women activists have requested me not to even mention the states of the female victims in cities . Respecting their volition, here are last week unabated woes faced by NE females in cities, which are very worrisome and eye opening lessons to be learnt.)
– One young NE female died at Fortis hospital on New Year day ….Helping Hands had to sent the body in coffin back home as monetary crunch made them to reached out to us . Helping Hands volunteers rendered all help and finally sent her coffin on 1.1.22 for her last wish to be buried at her village in hills .
– One NE Indigo Airhostess was rescued from Kerala from her abusive so called partner for her unthinkable inhuman physical abuses and tortures. Her brother in Army reached me out to rescue her.
Thanks to Kerala Helping Hands volunteers with my batchmate IPS Manoj Abraham who swiftly rescued her and sent he back by flight.
With tears she has lamented her grave mistake by falling into dubious honey trap as die hard lover who even fake attempted suicide to win her heart . How she mistaken that monstrous man for true love .
Battered for life , she has lost her job also, back home lamenting her foolishness. When I reminded her that, didn’t she read my awareness on fluidity of aviation under heading – ” Flight of Fantasy – woes of Airhostess “.
She told me that she thought –
” Mera bhala alag he, Sacha pyar karta he ….. sir me befcuff thi use pehchan nahi paya “.
She has told me to share her painful blunder in llfe so that other donot fall into such trap .
– Another NE young female married to a rich business young man in Pachim Vihar Delhi after bizzare wooing tactics like writing love letter with his blood, chasing her for 2 years, flooded with costly gifts .
Today she has been thrown out with 1 little daughter. She confided me how, she was forced to share with other male members of her in laws .
When she refused, she was humiliated, torture and finally kicked out even without maintenance alimony .
Police has filed case, Helping Hands female lawyer assisting her. But she is devasted for life, it’s so painful to see her little daughter just holding the helpless shaky hand of her abandoned mother unaware of the cruel world she has come without hope and future .
– Another NE female had pompous marriage with rich and handsome hunk but after few years their marriage life collapse due to difference in religion, food habits, social ethos, even dressing ( in laws wanted her to wear sarees) but she likes wearing long pant as an educated female ….ultimately lead to acrimony divorce with 2 children, even after the divorce, she is being harrased every now and than.
It was pathetic to see her all alone undergoing major operation in Max Super. Helping Hands somehow managed 4 units of blood from NE Blood Bank . Today she is all alone, weak, hapless trying to rebuild her life with her two children, when I counseled her why not seek the help of her relatives back home,she confided me with choking voice that she even couldn’t keep in touch during her good days with her dream man for years.
– Another NE young female had living together and so called quick marriage with one man from Dubai who was here for some work . 5 years they lived together happily, last year he left for Dubai promising that he will come back to take her. No news nor any contact from this man, waiting without hope, doesn’t have even money to pay the rent …..
Reached out to Helping Hands . We are engaging lawyer to help her out .
– Two young females came all the way from NE states to meet the miracle God man at Punjab whom they had meet at social media and this God man invited them to cure all their miseries with his miracle. They reached there and unfortunately this God man was arrested by police and these naive females were left in the lurch and they had no money left as they had donated all their money to the miracle God man .
Finding no alternative they reached out to Helping Hands volunteer advocate Daniel Lyndoh at Delhi, we sponsored their trained tickets back to NE states .
Spoken to them personally, it’s bizzare that they were desperately looking for jobs , so they wanted to seek the help of miracle God man.
– Another female entrepreneur had an agreement with businessman in city for business collaboration and paid 6 lakhs of rupees, slowly her business partner didn’t fulfill their agreement of sending equipments and started avoiding her. She is running from pillar to post for help and finally landed at my office.
Taking up with our legal team to help. But the blind faith on untested business man is laughable and unbelievable.
– Such bizzare cases are on increase day by day …..
– STRATEGY TO DEAL
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– HELPING HANDS has set up LEGAL TEAM for counseling marriage/ Court marriage etc .
Legal Team are –
* Daniel Stone Lyndoh, SC advocate.
* Rajesh Narang
HC advocate
* Liyi Noshi
HC advocate
* Jyothi Zongluzu
HC advocate .
Who will assist NE females who want to marry in civil Courts, who want to fight cases for alimony, custody of the child, maintenance money.
By, Robin Hibu IPS
President,
Helping Hands
Delhi.
